First off let me say I love toys. My house is bursting with toys. I’m not against toys. I love watching my children explore the world of play. That being said, I also want my kids to know that there is more to gift giving than just toys. Time spent and experiences have value too! I love to give non-toy gifts to family and friends, I like the element of surprise, I like that it’s different from everything else they will be getting. And I like that it last beyond Christmas or a birthday.
Here are 10 non-toy gift ideas:
- Memberships: At first I was worried that my kids would get bored if we went to the same museum or zoo over and over again. But I’ve found that to be completely false. Each time we go, we find something new or take something we’ve seen before to a deeper level. Museums challenge our thinking and inspire us to create/invent/change. I’m a big museum fan – you can read more about it here.
- Kids: Zoo, Aquarium, Children’s Museum, Museum of Natural History.
- Adults: Gym, Costco, Amazon Prime, Thrive Market, Netflix
2. Subscription Boxes: The gift that keeps giving. My mom got a Kiwi Crate subscription for Cam a few years ago and it was a HUGE hit. Each month he received a box with instructions for two age-tailored activities. He loved it. Nowadays you can find a subscription box for almost any interest – crafts, science, building, reading, traveling, cooking etc. Don’t tell, but TWO members of my family are getting subscription boxes this year.
- Kids: Kiwi Co., Green Kid Crafts, Little Passports
- Adults: BirchBox, Ipsy, Geek Fuel, The Gentleman’s Box
3. Monthly One on One outings: There really isn’t anything that has more value than time spent. It can be time spent with you or with someone important in their life. I recently gave a bride & groom 12 pre-planned and paid for dates, one for each month of their first year of marriage. The dates ranged from a coffee gift card to game night, to a Master Chef kitchen competition.
- Kids: Movie dates, dinner dates, game nights, ice cream dates
- Adults: Pre-planned date nights, coffee dates, dinner dates
4. Classes: Encouragement is one of the best things you can give someone but it can be tricky to show sometimes. An easy way to encourage someone is to buy them a class to pursue something they are interested in or good at.
- Kids: Dance, art lessons, musical instrument lessons, horseback riding, cooking classes, carpentry lessons. There’s a class for everything.
- Adults: Same as above!
5. Family Board Games: There are too many to list. Some of our favorites include Headbanz, Sequence, Catan, Ticket to Ride, and of course all the classics.
6. Experiences: One of my most favorite gifts I’ve done was when I took my oldest for his 7th birthday to see How the Grinch Stole Christmas on Broadway for his birthday. We both loved the show and it was such a special afternoon of just the two of us.
- Kids: Tickets to a musical or show, Disney on Ice, amusement park tickets, plan a family camping trip, take a class together
- Adults: A favorite concert, a show, rock climbing, skydiving
7. Magazine Subscription: Yes this is still a thing! And people still love getting mail!
- Kids: Ranger Rick, Highlights, Ask – there are so many depending on what your kids are interested in.
- Adults: There are too many to list. What is the recipient into? I one time got my brother a golf magazine subscription. And don’t forget the classics: Better Homes and Garden, Martha Steward Living, House Beautiful, Cooking Light.
8. Nature Up Close: My mom gave Cam an ant farm recently. I can’t tell you how many times I would catch us all just watching the ants work. It was really so cool to see them build tunnels and move food.
- Kids: Butterfly Kit, Ant Farm, Microscope, a bug hunting kit
- Adults: Bird feeder + seed, Telescope, a bee house
9. A Gift to Charity: This one is age specific. It would be hard to replace a young child’s gift with a charity donation but there are several organizations that donate to charity when you purchase their product. It’s a gift with a purpose.
- Kids: Cuddle & Kind Dolls, Lifestraw water bottles, Tegu blocks, Yoobi supplies
- Adults: 31 Bits Jewelry, Toms shoes & watches, Giving Keys necklace, World Vision had a variety of gifts to choose from for villages and families in need from a chicken, to clean water, to medicine.
10. Homemade Coupon Book: Everybody likes to feel a little power now and then. Giving a coupon book, lets them hold all the cards – literally. Letting kids stay up an extra 30 minutes, have a coffee date with just mom, choose tonight’s dinner, an ice cream run – be creative!
Do you have non-toy gift ideas? Comment below so we can have the ULTIMATE list!